It is true when they said that patience is a virtue. It is a vital factor in winning negotiations and even in getting a favorable response in ordinary human interactions. You don’t know how much it can help you if you learn to utilize its power. It can even give you the heart of the girl of your dreams if you do it right.
Men always veer away from the ‘slow and steady’ path of seduction. They usually let their inner aggressiveness get the good of them and this is when things turn ugly. So before you ruin what could be a great relationship just because you don’t know how to step on the brakes, here are some things that can help you slow yourself down.
Get to Know Her
I know that you are mesmerized by her beauty the moment that you laid your eyes on her. I know that it hit you like a lightning and that’s when you said that you wanted to be with her for the rest of your life. But before you jump into conclusions on what she is really like, get to know her. Ask about her hobbies and places she likes to hang out. Get to know how she interacts with people. Watch her facial expressions when she is happy or irritated. This will give you a more accurate picture of who she is. She will appreciate that you have looked beyond her outer beauty to see what’s within.
Try to Notice the Little Things
I know you’re busy and you’re not the type to remember someone’s birthday. But I like you to know that the simple act of noticing the little things can score you big points in winning the heart of any girl. Simply put, women love sensitivity. It appeals so much to their emotions and makes them think that they are special. And she is, right? So it would not hurt if you try to be a little more sensitive and thoughtful.
Be a Friend
Some girls may require more patience than others. Some women who are generally afraid of commitment will require you to be their friend first. Don’t be offended when they say this. It does not mean that they don’t like you. It just means that you need to work extra hard to win her heart. You’ll know if she’s worth the extra effort.
These tips will help you win the heart of the girl of your dreams in a slow and steady pace. There’s no rush in love especially if it’s meant to be. Don’t resist your destiny and let things flow.