Where to go to on your first date
As many of us know, the location of your date is very important. Especially on your first date the location can make a big difference. There are a lot of options to choose from when you are searching for your perfect 1st date location. It’s important to choose a location that you feel comfortable with and also try to estimate the preference your date might have.
The basic rule is that you don’t go to a place where it’s very crowded or noisy. It’s important that you and your date can get to know each other, so the possibility to talk is a must!
Some people like to do something sportive on their first date. The benefit of this is that it’s easier to keep the conversation going because you can always talk about the activity that you are doing. Also because of this you’ll have to put less focus on yourself because there is minor time to talk. This takes the pressure off for you. Of course it’s your own decision if you would like this or not. Examples of a sportive date are: indoor-skiing, bowling, karting, horse riding or just walking through a beautiful forrest. To make a sportive activity also romantic you can do the activity for example on the beach. After your activity you can watch the sunset or have a picnic in the park. It’s important that you always combine a sportive activity with a placid moment so you can have a good talk and get to know each other.
Want to have a classic first date? A café and restaurant are always a good option. Because of the informal atmosphere you and your date will probably feel comfortable. Maybe you would like to impress you date with a chic and classy restaurant but don’t be too enthusiastic about that. There is a chance your date will feel uncomfortable in a fancy restaurant when he or she isn’t used to it or didn’t expect it. Maybe she is not dressed for it, maybe she feels she can’t be herself anymore. For a second date this is more appropriate.
The do’s and don’ts. Don’t have a first date at your home. It’s better to get to know each other in a public area. Don’t come late. This gives the impression that you don’t care, which is nòt what you want. Do: try to imagine what your date would like to do and give a creative touch to it. It’s always good to impress someone and your date will already feel special, and that’s what you want: to give her that special feeling without exaggerating too much. Also try to figure out what she likes in order to make the second date even more remember able.